Mr Romantic: A Naija girl's point of view.

 I often wonder how courting should be. Is it the average love notes and constant compliments that do the trick? Or something more? Well for me, here is a list of five perfectly unique courtship ideas I think you should try with your lady love and watch her fall hopelessly in love with you:

1. Take her shopping.

     My dear, taking her shopping means you always want her to look her best which screams class—trendy outfits, luxury hair, bags, shoes, and—oouuu let's not forget—mani-pedis... Purrr. I mean, who doesn't want to look expensive? Not me by the way.

2. Give her money.

  What screams LOVE if it's not your man crediting your account on a daily basis? It adds to flames, igniting the romance. Just thinking about it: if its not money, then what else? If you haven't been doing this, Chairman, wise up. Like Davido said, "love is sweet o. But when money enters, love is sweeter."

3. Buy her flowers.

     As a naija babe, I really don't see the whole point of this. But hey! It's the thought that counts, right? I will also suggest you add a food tray filled with her favorite meals. My brother, she's not a goat; she can't eat the flowers.

4. Be her peace.

      Women already go through enough with the demands of life, aside the constant troubles a relationship can produce. Try being her friend as much as you want to be her lover. Create a safe space between the both of you, a place where she can be genuinely open and comfortable.

5. Support her.

    I don't mean the normal financial handouts, which are great by the way. Help her out when she needs to solve a problem or follow something detrimental to achieving her dreams. Aid her in ways no one can, and listen to her. Be ready to turn up and be there for her no matter what she's going through, either emotionally or physically.

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